tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750565905143817934.post9072905800599237397..comments2023-07-02T04:37:47.988-07:00Comments on Geekymummy: Olivegeekymummyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10529149669501249892noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750565905143817934.post-86010497764771417332010-02-19T11:08:53.272-08:002010-02-19T11:08:53.272-08:00Well, first, happy birthday. We had home parties w...Well, first, happy birthday. We had home parties when they were little too. And yes, life isn't fair. Poor little Olive and her mum and dad.A Modern Motherhttp://www.amodernmother.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750565905143817934.post-22690276684173179632010-02-17T05:56:45.210-08:002010-02-17T05:56:45.210-08:00Whenever I'm tempted to think "life isn&#...Whenever I'm tempted to think "life isn't fair" about anything in my own life, I remember two families we know who lost babies. That puts it into perspective in a second.Iota https://www.blogger.com/profile/08507184283437057648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750565905143817934.post-68863452906121340372010-02-17T05:14:21.379-08:002010-02-17T05:14:21.379-08:00Don't feel guilty about not having asked him m...Don't feel guilty about not having asked him more about Olive. He may not have needed to tell you more right then - just to acknowledge, given that he was talking about his children, that she had existed. <br /><br />I occasionally feel the need to mention that I had a daughter between DD and DS, but I lost her in pregnancy 8 years ago and never had any time with her. I can barely begin to imagine how much stronger the loss is when you lose a child as opposed to a baby you never really knew. I'm sure his talking about her is part of his way to cope. I remember talking to all kinds of people in all kinds of inappropriate settings about my loss until I came to terms with it!Almost Americanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17865905831387595915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1750565905143817934.post-53237583169705659802010-02-17T01:56:23.190-08:002010-02-17T01:56:23.190-08:00I cant post, too many tears, sor all the babys who...I cant post, too many tears, sor all the babys who have had too little birthdays. I can not for the life of me remember the poem only the words, 4 feet of coffin, one for every year of his lifeJen Walshawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07374363403295342745noreply@blogger.com